Have you ever thought about ways to help motivate yourself? Maybe find a way to open yourself up to a new reality? A reality that serves a purpose for personal exploration. A self-fulfilling type of reality to help you grasp options of growth or even closure. Yes, to me, closure is growth too.
Things happen that make me think about the what-ifs and whys of life all the time. Weird dreams that have no explanation, running into people you thought you would never see again, and what about having that "it had to be a coincidence" feeling? How many coincidences must happen before it feels more like fate?
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What can I do to open myself up to a new reality?
There are so many things you can do to broaden your mind for growth, closure, and clarity. Finding an online psychic to help you out is a great way to do just that. Allowing someone to connect with you and use their natural talents and spirit guides as a connection to help you see the bigger picture, is a connection you will cherish. That’s exactly what I’ve been doing at California Psychics and it’s so amazing. It’s so insightful and authentic, every single time.
If you are wondering how things like this can help you move forward?
- Contacting a deceased loved one
- Having your dreams analyzed
- Have a card reading
- How do I open my mind more?
- How do I stay motivated to achieve my goals?
- Are the goals I have set for myself in my best interest?
- Are my talents being wasted by focusing on the wrong things?
- How can I build my confidence and self-esteem to trust in myself?
- Why do I keep having this dream? What is it telling me?
There are so many questions that constantly run through my mind, and it makes me feel somewhat trapped. I feel trapped because I don't know how to answer it all on my own. Some of the best advice I have ever been given is "you are your biggest obstacle, get out of your way." Basically. how I took that was- I have to stop holding myself back.
I have to stop limiting myself by being quiet and staying in my own head. I need to let go of hesitation. Let go of the worry. Know and believe that there are answers out there, I just need help finding them.
That's why I love seeking help and insight from the advisors at California Psychics. They can give it to me straight without judgment. That's a huge positive factor. All of their insight comes with reassurance. No "I told you so" or "you knew better." Just genuine awareness, understanding, and depth.
I know that I am getting the best and most authentic insight available from a trusted advisor. There are advisors available 24/7 to help me through. I can get a call or a chat, whichever way fits the situation better they are ready when I need them.
Searching for the right online psychic
Looking for the right type of psychic for the job is so easy too. By using the filter on the California Psychics website or their app (available for iOS and Android), you can sort through all the psychics by ability, tools, topics, experience, availability, and more.
I was scrolling through the pages of advisors and saw Psychic Ana. I read her profile and felt like I had a connection with her. I clicked the "Talk" button and instantly my phone rang. It was California Psychics calling to connect me to the psychic I had requested. I love how fast that works!
How do I say what I need to say?
For me, finding the right question to ask is the hardest part. I know what I want to find out, but I struggle with finding the right way to ask for it.
Asking a psychic advisor, the right question is very important. A psychic can help you navigate uncharted territory and help you find the answers and guidance you’ve been searching for.
My advice, be direct and be specific if you are looking for specific answers. Once you've asked the question, listen carefully. For me, I take notes. I want to make sure I remember all the important information. To me, it's all-important information so I pretty much write down everything I can.
What led up to my question...
I have been going through some self-searching lately. Feeling like- I'm not exactly sure how I'm feeling. I know I've been feeling overwhelmed and a bit lonely. I'm missing my family, a lot of the time, I'm sad that they didn't live longer. I've been having issues with wanting to know if I had my dad's approval. Wanting to know why he hasn't tried to connect with me. Wanting to know if he was proud of me? I've had so many questions over the years that I know he'd be able to answer. I've visualized what he would be like as a grandpa. How would he have handled my divorces? Middle school? High school? Would we have stayed as close through the years?
I have unsuccessfully attempted to connect with him in the past. When I tried before, I was told that he was there but wouldn't step out of the shadows to talk. That he was feeling shame and guilt. When I was told that it made me so much sadder. I was there, he was there, why couldn't he just talk.
So... What's my question???
You may have guessed but, "Is my dad trying to connect with me?" is my question. Now this super important part, finding someone to help me get the answer. Although I was hopeful, I was still preparing myself for another No. Just in case my dad couldn't be reached, I didn't want to get sad if it didn't work out. I know how sensitive these things are. I thought to myself, it’s ok if you can't find him, you know how much he loved you while he was here with you.
With hopeful intentions, I said my question.
She said, who's name are we speaking about today and we can get started. I said Jeff (that's my dad's name). She started right into the reading.
He is worried. I can see the worry on his face. He's worried because of how things went between you that you aren't letting him back in. He is scared that you don't want to see him. He is seeing how stressed you are.
"Jeff is my dad, is he trying to connect with me?"
She said yes, for a long time. He's been trying to get your attention but is afraid that you aren't seeing it. He's saying, "please see me."
This is where I started crying. I have been saying that for years. PLEASE SEE ME! We have been saying the same thing from opposite sides of existence. I had such a noisy sobbing cry stuck in my chest that left me temporarily speechless. I had to pause because I couldn't even exhale without squeaking.
She said: He's saying to stay on track and not to lose faith, Things will work out. If it's private, you don't have to say; he sees it and wants you to know that everything will be ok.
I didn't want to say a few things because I didn't want to change the direction of the reading but, Aron is finally doing better for the first time in years. When I decided to make the call, we had just gotten home from this week's post-op appointment. The hole on his foot is healing and as long as it continues to improve, next week, the wound vac gets to come off and he gets to start skin therapy. As a last resort, skin grafting will be used but we are hoping to stay out of the operating room if we can help it. Aron's foot surgeon is very optimistic about how things are going. We have all seen Aron's foot almost heal and overnight it turns bad and he ends up in emergency surgery to have his toes removed. He only has 3 toes left; we are hoping he can keep them. Hearing dad’s message of keeping on track and not losing faith was so comforting.
What do I look for to know it's him?
I asked if there is something that I can look for that will help me know it was him. She said to watch for the signs and listen, they are not always audible. She is the third psychic advisor to tell me that I have medium abilities. She continued to tell me that I can hear it myself, I don't need someone to tell me, I just have to listen for it and not just with my ears.
I let her know that I was always told that cardinals and dragonflies are spirits. I have been seeing them very frequently lately. The cardinal I understand but the dragonflies, not so much. I don't live by the water, and they have been coming to me for as long as I can remember.
My cardinal experience
Over the past few years, there is a cardinal that is always here at the house. When I come home, almost every time I pull into the driveway, it flies across the driveway and up towards the curve in the road. It's happened so many times that everyone in the family looks for it. I always say "hi, I see you." I've always wondered who it was. But no matter who it is, I wanted to make sure they knew I acknowledge them.
My dragonfly experience
My connection with dragonflies has been a weird one. It's been so important to me, and I never knew why. So important that my whole family knows that it's my comfort symbol. Enough that I have several dragonfly tattoos on my body. I have had a love for their magical beauty for as long as I can remember. The calm and comfort I feel with dragonflies is so hard to explain.
When I was little, we would go to the river in the warm months. My great grandparents had a cottage, and we would have all our family cookouts there. Generations of us learned to swim right in the channel of the Kankakee River in Wilmington, IL. On the dock, we would go fishing and play. I remember seeing dragonflies and feeling their magic. I loved them so much that if I didn't see them first, he would point them out to me. They would fly right above the water like they were gliding, and it was beautiful.
After my dad passed, I would go to the dock to watch for them. It was a peaceful thing for me. Even as an adult, when I was living at the cottage with my grandparents (going through a divorce), the dock was always a place I could sit and collect myself.
When I was just out of high school and stopped by one of my co-workers' houses to hang out and watch tv, I ran back to my car to grab my drink and as I made it almost to the car, there was a swarm of dragonflies. I mean hundreds of them. They were so many of them that I could feel the wind from their wings, but they weren't touching me. My friend was on the porch and yelling for me to not move. It scared both of us. I have never seen so many dragonflies at one time in my whole life! I said no watch, I'm fine. I finished walking to the car got my drink and walked back towards the house, not one of them touched me but they surrounded me like an aura. Once I made it back to the sidewalk in front of his house, they flew off. It's been over 20 years since that happened, but I have thought and talked about it countless times.
I always thought my connection with dragonflies was a personal symbol. I had no idea it was my dad. It makes so much sense now!
She said do you have a sibling? He is showing me your siblings. I said yes, I do have sisters he is the biological father of my older sister and loved my little sister like his own. He is saying how much he cherishes the memories of the tomboy. That was me! I was the tomboy!! I was always helping in my dad's garage, playing in the dirt, and going anywhere that he went. He cherishes the memories of me?!?!
How were these things happening and I didn't put it together? It was my dad all along?
I have been searching for a connection with my dad since I was 7 years old. I have missed him so much! He was like a superhero to me. Over the past few years, it hit me that I don't remember what his voice sounds like. I don't remember what his hugs feel like. I don't remember his face unless I am looking at his picture. BUT I remember him loving me, I remember how safe I felt when he was around, I remember him showing us what it was like to work and provide for the family. I like to think that I remember the important things but do I really?
Psychic Advice
Talking with Ana helped me so much with understanding. She explained that "hearing messages" isn't just hearing him talk to me. It can be messages through someone else's voice, feelings, and so much more. That I could be watching tv and something come on that's a message, reminding me of him, letting me know that he's here. Watch for the signs and don't be afraid. Keep an open mind. When I see, hear, or feel something it's ok if I stop what I am doing, sit down, and focus. Say hello. Say what is on my mind. Say out loud that I have seen it and ask if it's him.
The conclusion of the call
I ended this call with so much closure and insight for moving forward. I was in a whirlwind of emotions and so many memories from a lifetime of missing my dad, but I was able to see that he really has been here THE WHOLE TIME. When I was at my loneliest, most scared, and darkest moments, he was here! He does See Me! And moving forward, I will do my best to See Him. I will listen, not with just my ears.
I have made so many calls to California Psychics coving all kinds of topics but this one will stick with me for the rest of my life. I would like to thank Ana and California Psychics for bringing me the peace of knowing my dad is still with me.
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