For anyone experiencing hearing loss, it can be frustrating, upsetting, and even embarrassing at times. Even if they use hearing aids or implants to help them hear, they may still find themselves unable to make out what you are saying or asking you to repeat yourself.
When you are trying to communicate with someone who has impaired hearing, it can be frustrating for you as well. When conversation becomes difficult, you mustn’t get disheartened and give up, or worse, get angry at the other person.
It is perfectly possible to communicate with someone who has hearing loss, but you need to pay attention to how you speak to them. If you have friends, family, or coworkers who are hearing impaired, follow these simple tips to help you communicate with them more effectively.
Get their attention
If the listener isn’t looking at you when you start talking, they might not be aware you are trying to strike up a conversation. Get their attention before you begin to speak to allow them to shift their focus onto you. Say their name clearly, use a visible gesture, or, if appropriate, gently touch their arm to let them know you are them.
Make eye contact
A hard of hearing listener will rely heavily on facial expressions, gestures, and body language to understand what you are saying. They may even be able to lip-read. For this reason, you should ensure that you are face-to-face with them and maintain eye contact throughout.
Speak naturally and clearly
You may be tempted to shout so they can hear you, but this is unnecessary and can even make lip reading more difficult. Speak at a normal, clear volume and enunciate your words properly so they can understand you.
Don’t cover your mouth
To enable your listener to absorb facial cues and read your lips, make sure you keep your hands away from your face and refrain from making any exaggerated facial expressions.
Avoid background noise
A hearing-impaired person will find it harder to hear you when there is other noise going on. Turn down any TVs or radios, and if there are other people around, take your conversation to a more quiet location. Try to avoid noisy places such as busy restaurants or large gatherings if possible.
Watch them carefully
Some people with hearing loss may be embarrassed by having to continually ask you to repeat yourself. In some cases, they may be reluctant to ask. Observe their face when you speak to them and look out for any signs of confusion. If they seem puzzled, either reiterate what you have said more clearly, or ask them if they need clarification.
Be understanding
It can be frustrating when there is a barrier to communication but be considerate. It’s essential that you recognize hearing loss is something they have to deal with on a daily basis, and they will greatly appreciate you being patient and understanding. Be happy and willing to repeat yourself and accept that communication with someone who has hearing loss is a cooperative effort.
The communication difficulties that arise from hearing loss can often make those experiencing it reluctant to engage in conversation or attend social events. By making an effort to speak to them and being patient, you will avoid hurting their feelings and help to improve the quality of their social relationships.
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