How do you deal with your spouse? For a long time, I thought that just believing they knew how I was feeling because I knew how they were feeling was the wonderful way of life. Guess what, I was wrong. Oh was I so very wrong.
I know now that it is okay to ask questions. It's okay to make sure we are both on the same page with whats going on. We are a team. The masters of our universe. The ones that make the show, how ever you want to say it. All of this, is us. We have to be together and all in to make any of this work.
We have had a few ups and downs in our relationship and thanks to hard work, love, devotion and knowing we are worth it, is what has pulled us through. Using great resources to help us along the way ha been a very awesome factor.
I would like to recommend this book to you. Dr. Stephanie's Relationship Repair for Couples. This is such a good book and I love it. It really helps get some ideas to strengthen our relationship. At first, Aron said, A customer service approach really?! Then I explained it to him some more and he saw the point.
When we deal with strangers, we have a tendency to be nice at first no matter what. It's not like when I am talking to Aron and it's already in my mind that he left my window down and it rained last night or he didn't replace the toilet paper roll in the hall bathroom. It makes it a little hard t ask him with an unbiased thought what's going on. I honest;y don't know if I can do it without sounding snippy at him.
I was a waitress for a lot of years. Customer service is something I have learned to grasp. This book helped me put so many things into perspective that I wish I have thought of years ago. I read it and gave Aron the recap. But first, a few days of trying out some of the awesome ideas.
He has been going through some very frustrating issues with his feet and ankles and a new surgeon and has been a little bit quieter and just to himself lately. By me asking him if there "Is something I can do to make it better for you?" He didn't even know we were working on Relationship Repair for Couples, but things are getting easier to talk about and he is even following along.
Aron and I are a great team. We do spend a lot of time together. I work from home and he is disabled, we are together 24/7 being able to communicate better has really made it so much more enjoyable. I really feel like we have more successful and meaningful conversations, better ending results.
Thanks so much Dr. Stephanie for working with me on this review. I received this product for free in exchange of an honest, unbiased review.






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