I just want you, my beautiful babies, to know that you are the best thing I have ever done with my life. I am seriously amazed that I had a part in something so magnificent. You guys are just, perfect.
I have been trying to think of some of the advice that I can pass on to you guys as you begin your next chapter. None of these are immediate. It's like long-term, whole life advice. I have had a lot of years of living to come up with this stuff. I am just hoping that somewhere along the line, some of my struggles can save you from hurt or confusion.
None of this will be in order but, hey, it's coming from me, just understand it the best you can. And, read it in my voice 💖
The biggest one (most important that you never forget)
The biggest one (most important that you never forget)
Don't hide stuff from me. I always know way before you are ready to tell me and it kills me keeping it to myself until you are ready to spill the beans. Just know that anything you might have to tell me, won't make me disappointed in you. Whatever it is, we can work it out. I am always here. I will always be your biggest fan. I will never be ashamed or quited. I will always be the one standing in the bleachers clapping the loudest and screaming your name because I am so proud of you! Don't be embarrassed by me, it's because I love you.
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Life can be so confusing and weird sometimes. Some choices are not easy to make. Do your best to make informed decisions. Don't worry about what other people think when it comes to your life decisions, even me. I might not like it. I might get upset and try to talk you out of it. It's my job to try to help you to the best of my ability but, you are the one that has to live with it. Do your best.
Everything that you may go through, be patient. It may seem unnecessary or a waste of time but, there is a purpose. It might take a while, years even, but, you will see the purpose eventually.
When you are faced with a decision, make sure it is a decision that you can live with. Good or bad, you will have the rest of your life to look back on it, make sure it's worth it.
If your options are only negative, make them positive. Make sure something good will come from it even if it is years down the road.
You have to find the good and the truth in every situation. Even in the darkest hours, there will be light. You might have to search for it, but always remember babies, everything in the dark will come to the light eventually.
Don't be afraid of the truth, don't hide from it. Don't be afraid to ask a question because the answer may be too hard to handle. The truth will save you from so much more than a lie can ever protect you from.
Believe in yourself and know that I always have your back.
It's ok to be scared. It's ok to second guess yourself. But, don't second guess yourself into the dirt. You have to decide at some point may as well just get it done with.
It's okay to rely on someone else for your strength, while you catch your breath. But you have to get back on your feet and start living again. Don't let someone carry you because it's easy.
Don't let someone else decide what your happiness is.
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That might seem like a lot but it's nowhere near what I have ready for when you need it. I love you guys so much.
Love always,
Mom
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