Amy & Aron's

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of California Psychics.

Life is so full of uncertainty at times. Finding balance can be equally frustrating and exhausting. You have to find someone that you can talk to to help you make sense of it all. For me, that's my psychic advisor at California Psychics. She has made more sense out of the situations I am in than I ever could. She explains what's going on around me in a way that I can understand and work with. Every time we talk, I feel like I have a better understanding of myself, my situations, and the people around me.

You know me, I can't just get to a point, I have to tell you the whole story so you can understand it too. This is a bit long-winded so go grab a snack, I'll wait. And then, I'll fill you in on all the recent events.

I thought the problems that my husband and I were having were going through would magically go away after the surgeries and the scariness was over with. I honestly thought that once the healing was done and the infections were all gone, he would stop feeling like a wounded bear and I would stop feeling like ran over opossum (just sticking with the wildlife theme). My crippling optimism strikes again.

As you know, my husband and I have been through a lot over the years with finances, health, kids, step kids, family, and more. Pretty much every single box you can check off on the way to the divorce lawyer has been checked off at least once, mostly twice, or more if I'm being honest. We just navigate our way through it hoping for the best outcome along the way.

We made it through the beginning of 2021 with the help and understanding from Enid, an amazing advisor at California Psychics. Talking to her before (the whole story is in this blog post) was so helpful and inspired me to want to call again.

I have been really feeling the weight of it all lately and I don't have anything to blame it on or an excuse to use. I feel like life isn't giving us too much pressure, just adventures. That's why I am not sure why I am feeling so negative about it.

From the beginning of the year, Aron's surgeries went amazingly, it took several months of healing but he's finally back to normal, the new normal, however normal can be with only 4 toes. We still have the constant worry/wonder of if/when the other toes will come off. All in all, things felt like they were calming down. And as life would have it, more adventures have arrived. Nothing life-threatening, just life happening.

• My sister moved in with us
• We are trying to buy a house (fingers crossed)
• My Mother in Law is selling her house and we are moving in together (when we find a house to buy)

I have so many questions!

• Is it the right time to buy a house? Are we looking in the right area? Is it the house we looked at yesterday? Is it safe for my mother-in-law to move away from her doctors? Should we stay in this area or move back to our home state?
• Is my sister in the right place, am I the support she needs?
• And the big one- Am I insecure or is my husband losing interest? Is he talking to someone else or just content in this non-intimate phase? Is he just as confused as I am right now?

Surely he's feeling the impact of all these changes too!

I felt the need to call Enid because of all of the uncertainty. She has a great way of giving it to me straight and leaving me with a better understanding of what's happening around me.

I always feel like I have to defend my thoughts and explain them to who I am talking to. That leaves me feeling shamed before I get any answers and offended when I get scoffed at or laughed at as if my ideas and observations are being completely invalidated. That's why I needed Enid from California Psychics! She is the unbiased voice with a bit more insight than I have to give these situations. She has helped me more than I could ever explain in words!

I went on the website, searched for Enid, and it showed she was on another call. I got in her queue for a callback (I was second in the queue). That gave me a few minutes to gather my supplies and get ready to hear what I really wasn't sure I wanted to hear but what I knew I needed to hear. As soon as she called back I grabbed my phone, drink, snack, paper, pen, and hauled it out to the car. I didn't want any distractions. The kids, dogs, tv, computer, or ANYTHING, getting in the way! No distractions Amy, you need focus!



My thought process on the way to the car-

I was bracing myself for a Joker or something negative- pack your bags and move on with your life- it was fun but, cut your losses before you waste any more of your time HAHAHA I have to say I am surprised! To clarify- I don't know what a Joker represents it just seems fitting to my thoughts at the time.

I was so happy when she got on the line, I had to thank her for helping me through the disaster I was in last time I called. She was happy to talk to me again too- YAY!

My Reading (With a deck of cards)

She started by asking for my name, my birthday, and my husband's name. Then the magic happened when she started my reading with her deck of playing cards (my favorite tool of hers) and her interpretation.

She drew the cards:

2 of diamonds- increased abundance
4 of hearts- keep a warm place to be (loving)
3 of hearts- communication is positive

"You are having ambivalent feelings about your relationship and will have to make a decision about it."

2 of hearts- a committed loyal relationship
2 of spades- gratitude

Explaining The Cards

She didn't waste any time explaining what the cards meant. I appreciate that because it is a paid call. She doesn't waste our time or money by making the call last longer than it has to be. It was the information I needed in the way that I needed it- Thank you, Enid!

• She let me know right off the top that Aron loves me very much, he's been trying to get better communication with me, that he's completely loyal to me.
• He has been feeling low on his confidence and has been looking for someone to acknowledge that he's doing a good job and he's playing toward his strengths.
• He is not losing interest in me. He is avoiding "special time" because of his own personal problems (headspace).
• He is just needing someone to give him qualified feedback, a pat on the back. Someone to confirm he is a good guy.
• My sister is going through a lot. Her confusion will be sorted out soon.
• Wait on the move, just a little bit. It will be worth the wait. Mom in Law needs a little more time.
• Don't have both mother-in-law and sister in the house at the same time.

So much explaining to do!! Every piece of that fits into what I am going through right now.



Aron loves me very much, he's been trying to get better communication with me, that he's completely loyal to me.


He wants qualified feedback from someone that isn't clouded with years of personal feelings. I know the Aron that has been in my life for over 13 years. He wants someone new without personal bias to tell him good job.

That made a lot of sense to me. With my sister being here, she's new. It's a whole new audience for him. Not that he wants to impress her to woo her, he wants her to see that I married a good guy who is capable of being a good man. So he does things that she will notice like cook and clean because that's what a good guy would do.

Also with his online gaming, he has gone back to the old game that he used to play and is on it on a leadership level, not just a player level. He wants to teach all of the new recruits how to play the game successfully and is also very loaded with compliments and thank you's when it comes to advice. I'm okay with online gaming. I do have a few personal issues with the game he is playing from past experiences and that's where my negativity is coming from on that.

For me, that is a little hard to digest. I feel like I have been here for all of these years, and I want him to appreciate the compliments I give him. I want my acknowledgment to be fulfilling to him. I want him to feel good about the things that I'm saying to him, I see what he's doing, I like it when he cooks, I appreciate it when he cleans, I tell him that he's doing a good job when he works hard towards something. Why can't my appreciation and pats on the back be enough?

Intimacy

Aron is also concerned with our intimacy and is blaming himself for it. I'm not being an unappreciative person, we don't have to enjoy only the "special time." I love snuggling up and talking, watching movies, planning life, and all kinds of stuff. Anything that involves both of us interacting together, that would be great for me! I don't mean to make it feel like more pressure.

Loyalty

We are in a loyal and committed relationship. We have successfully devoted ourselves to each other for the past 13 1/2 years. No matter what kind of chaos we are going through during the day, we always go to bed together and wake up the next day with a fresh start. For that, I am happy. I have had my doubts a few times over the years but, again, they are my doubts.

Communication

That brings us to communication. Aron and his communication skills aren't easy pills to swallow. He's not great with conflict. If he has something to say, he will not come out and say it. It is always a vague interpretation and up to me to guess. That has caused a lot of arguments. I am still seeing a huge problem with our communication. and it's great knowing that he is working harder on that.

The House...

A move is coming and it will be a good one, Enid said. It will be the beginning of the year before the house we want will be available. As far as my mother-in-law moving in, it's not time yet for her to make the move. If we need to live together, we should live with her, where she is, until the beginning of the year. As it is, the kids won't be able to cope with two ladies in the house. It will cause too much distraction. We need to wait until one moves out.

My Sister

Wowzers! My sister just moved in with us! Enid had so much to say about my sister, it was CRA-ZAY!

She is craving male attention. That's so accurate! She is in a very hard position and has recently broken up with a longtime boyfriend. They have constant communication because they have a family of dogs together and shared custody of them. Even though they are being civil to each other, some habits are hard to break. That explains the balance between Aron's need for feedback and her needing male attention.

My sister will be going through some major changes over the next 2-3 weeks and taking responsibility for her actions. Enid also said she is causing much mayhem around her right now. She isn't causing trouble, she is just very busy and that is a little distracting for me. I am still learning to blend all of our schedules and be able to have time to work and help Cassie with online school.



Post-Call

I had a lot to take in from this reading and I am so happy I got to do it with Enid. I highly recommend California Psychics. If they can handle my chaos, they can help bring light to anything! I had to call my mom immediately. She's my sounding board for all of it.

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