Merry Christmas to everyone! I hope your holiday season has been amazing so far! Have you thought about gifting yourself or maybe gifts for your partner that will benefit you both? If you haven't yet, you really should! There is nothing more special than a well thought, great intention, gift that keeps on giving! There are so many great ideas when it comes to couples gifts and some of them you can make on your own!
Don't shy away from "special gifts" because it's a sensitive subject. Just do it! It will be the most thought-about gift all year!
For the record, don't be embarrassed about sexual concerns. Some 43% of women and 31% of men report some degree of sexual dysfunction and 38% of couples are experiencing intimacy trouble according to Google. That means there is really a lot more because some people find it too sensitive to talk about. There are ways to help that. Don't feel alone, it's ok. Some of you will be able to work it out together, some may need a little more help, but all of you can get closer with the right tools to work with.
Work on communication, understanding, and confidence. Take some of the pressure off by being less scheduled and more spontaneous. Work on it from a distance; across the room or across the world. Yes, that's right, make time for each other even if you can't reach each other at an arm's length.
Couples Gift Ideas
We can all talk about those sexy task gifts that have "love coupons" inside. You can get printable coupons online so you can draw, cut, and display them yourself, either way, your special someone will love it for sure. You can also go with a more personal touch and handwrite them. I love the personal touch of handmade gifts!
For a little self-gratification, make sure you specify when needed, one coupon redeemable per night or coupons redeemable with another coupon joined. Make it fun, not a chore, and most of all don't get bored!
A few ideas for redeemable love coupons:
- One body massage
- Play through one full fantasy
- One night of naked maid service (dinner, movie, and snack with a smile and only an apron allowed for cooking purposes- waist apron only)
- One night of toys (any and all toys welcome)
- Kisses below the neck (you know)
- Striptease with your outfit of choice (I recommend having a few to choose from that you know you are comfortable in)
- One lap dance (book 2 days in advance to redeem. Let's be honest, life is messy and sometimes we need a little notice of when to shave and to find the perfect thing to wear.)
- One hour of dirty talk- do it how you want! talk, text, snap, whatever you want to get you excited.
- One night of teasing only
- Hotel hook up
- Date Night
- Pick a Position https://www.lovelifetoys.com/Position-Sex-Card-Deck (a card game that allows you to try new positions without the awkwardness of talking it out)
You get the idea, a token of love and intimacy that will be beneficial for both of you if you play your coupons right! Get creative and naughty! You can make one of these gifts with stuff you have laying around the house or buy a premade set but, make sure you have fun with it. Only you know what you and your partner get excited about so make it fun.
Toys
Toys can be an amazing gift for couples. Don't be afraid or embarrassed to try new things. Keep in mind, if its new to you then it's new to him with you too, just go for it! It can be especially helpful for couples that struggle in this area. Intimacy is something for both parties to enjoy, together. Toys can be a great way to get things started and a great way to get finished.
Get excited to be with each other. Do you remember when you first started dating? After the 5th date, when you were so excited to see each other because it might be overnight. When you were not able to keep your hands off each other and simple conversations about which day to go to the laundry mat could turn into a full-on night of passion? Relationships can always use that bit of excitement.
Togetherness toys
Using toys that involve two people can be extra fun for both of you. It's not always about dildos and vibrators, they are amazing but there are other options.
blueMotion NEX|1- 2nd generation
Price: $129.00
Features: One-size fits all blue lacy panties, App-controlled play, OhMiBod Remote App Features, Control from anywhere, anytime, Perfect for discreet public play, Body-safe silicone, USB rechargeable, 1 year warranty
The blueMotion NEX/1- 2 is pretty exciting advice and works great for one or two participants. There is a specially designed pair of panties that have a compartment for the wearable vibrator. Wearable, pretty exciting already right?! You can control it yourself with the app or your partner can do it. That is really awesome. This is the first time seeing these in real life, I only saw them in the movies before now. How much fun for the surprise of your buddy surprising you, right there in the middle of the grocery store!!
Reminder, yes, all year long! Great gift idea!!!!
blueMotion NEX|3
Price: $109.00
Features: App-controlled play, Velvet Wave® comfort technology, Extended Touch® design for consistent contact, Body-safe silicone, waterproof, eco-friendly manufacturing, USB rechargeable, 1 year warranty
The blueMotion NEX|3 is awesome for everyone involved. A few quotes that I wanted to share "It's smooth to put on and wear on very sensitive skin areas". "It's comfortable to wear". "It's awesome in all positions, which is a huge bonus". "The texture gives it more to look forward to". "It's an unexpected great time".
This is also app-controlled so you can get into the moment without your hands getting in the way.
Reminder, yes, all year long! All Year!!!
Club Vibe 3.OH Panty Vibe
Perfect for couples' play with up to 20ft(6m) wireless range. USB Charging
Rechargeable battery in BOTH massager and remote control
The Club Vibe 3.OH is something that I would have never imagined in a million years and it is SO COOL! It comes with black lace very sexy panties with a specially designed compartment for the wearable vibrator. Get in on the spontaneous playtime and you can do it anywhere!
You can send a little buzz to let your special someone know that you are thinking of them, you can voice control or music control it. How much fun would that little secret be?!
Should I say it again? All your joy! I love these gift ideas!!
Lube
Lube is such a funny word, isn't it? Maybe it's the immature part of me that laughs every time I hear it. It doesn't even matter in what way it's being used. Lube... LOL
Ok, so being serious, there's are a lot of ways that lube can be very helpful. It's great for body massages and helping things fit into the intended places easier. Dryness isn't a joke at all. Ohmibod has a great selection of personal lubes that you can use with yourself or a partner :).
I received the Lovelife Natural in my awesome goodies box.
Lovelife Natural is water-based and water-soluble. It has ingredients that are natural from the sea and have healing properties.
Lovelife natural intimate lubricant is a water-based and water-soluble personal lubricant, blended with hand-selected natural seaweed extracts. These natural extracts of the sea are blended with our water-based lubricant, to provide a slippery, sensual lubricant with the natural healing properties of the sea.
Put the twinkling lights in your partner's eyes this holiday season with OhMiBod products.
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